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There is a world of difference between what a woman needs from a man, and what most men think they need. Men seem to think women are so complicated. Although in many cases this is true, what women really need is not.

I have struggled for years to learn what women need. I have read countless books on the subject, and yet, I still struggle with understanding women. Does this problem sound familiar to you? If so, then you do not want to miss this. The answer will probably shock you.

I finally broke down and asked, it amazes me how simple it really is. Most men think women want a man who is good looking, have money, or other superficial qualities. The fact is, although some women are shallow, most women are not that way. If you follow these simple tips, you will attract a great woman who is drooling over you, and you will make all of her friends jealous.

The biggest thing a woman wants is someone she can trust. Be honest with her. Now, this does not mean you have to be mean. You should use common sense. Tell her the truth, but tell her in a way that is helpful and shows that you care.

Women will ask you those terrible questions from time to time. You know which ones I am talking about. The ones like,"Was that girl prettier than me?" " Does this dress make my butt look big?" Use some compassion. Find a way to answer these honestly, but in her favor.

Ok, so she asks if another girl is prettier than she is. How about saying, "She looks pretty, but you look gorgeous."Or, you can say, "I like the way you look, no matter what you are wearing."� Find a way to be honest but compliment her at the same time.

Don't hide things from her. Women are naturally suspicious. It is ok to plan a surprise, but don't hide things from her. Be open and honest about your feelings. If something bothers you, be willing to tell her. She cannot read your mind.

Appreciation

Show her that you appreciate everything she does for you. Take the time to do something special just for her. Many women start feeling unappreciated within relationships. After all men can be insensitive jerks some times.

Women are emotional creatures. Men on the other hand, learn to hide their feelings. This creates a lot more conflict in relationships than anything else does.

Notice the small things. Thank her for cooking dinner. Let her know that you like the time she took to make herself look nice for your date. Whatever she does, pay attention and show her that you noticed. This will go a long way to ensuring your relationship will last.

Show Your Love

Men are not always big on displays of affection. Showing your woman how much you love her does not mean you have to spend a lot of money or buy expensive gifts. Those are nice, but not necessary.

Give her a surprise visit at work, just to say hello. Send her flowers with a nice card, without it being a special occasion. I have a good friend who sends his wife flowers at least once a week. She never knows what type she will get, or when they will show up. It is always a pleasant surprise.

A simple homemade card that says you love her on her pillow when she wakes up will work wonders. Women love this kind of thing.

You don't have to spend a lot of money, just take a little time and show that you love them. A little hug, telling her you love her will leave her knees quivering. Whatever you do, make sure you take time every day to show her how much you care.

Following these simple tips will take you a long way with the woman you love. Being able to show her that you love her and appreciate her will keep the attraction and leave her daydreaming about you when you are not around. Being honest with her, even during the difficult questions will gain you a lot of respect and will make her quiver with excitement. Spend the time to focus on her.

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