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Steps To Get Your Ex Back
Self Improvement Author: David Johnson
Steps To Get Your Ex Back
You have just had the dreaded talk, and he or she wants out of the relationship. Now you have broken up officially. Here are the steps to get your ex back.

You are probably feeling you need to declare your undying love for your ex, begging them to stay and not leave. Telling them you will change and the two of you can work things out.

You may be thinking these actions will save your relationship. You may even continue to call and text your ex hundreds of time during the day. Your world is spinning and you feel like you need to let your ex know how much you care for them and this is the key to win them back.

Breaking up with someone is a very traumatic time and all these feelings are natural. However if allow your emotions to control your actions, you will actually push your ex farther away. Although it is tough, you will want to try to keep your emotions and thoughts under control if you are to get your ex back.

The very first step is to accept the break-up. During the dreaded conversation, you could take it one more step and tell your ex that you were thinking the same thing, and it is best for us to be apart.

By accepting the break-up you are doing several things. First, you are diffusing the situation and decreasing the chances of a nasty argument. Most importantly you will appear to be on your ex's side, not against them.

If you have already gone past this point, and you have let your emotions control your actions you have done some of the crazy things mentioned at the beginning of this article there still hope. You can use what is called the Magic Second Chance Letter. (more on this in Magic Of Making Up Review) to get you back on track to winning your ex back. 

Now you should take a break from the relationship. This is a time of no contact with your ex. No calling, texting, emailing, or stopping by. You need to give your ex time to miss you. This will not happen if he or she knows they can pick up the phone, and you will be there.

Always remember that we crave what we cannot have. This is part of human nature. So this time apart gives them the opportunity to start craving you again.

The other important aspect of taking a break from the relationship is it gives you a cooling off period. This allows you to start thinking rationally and look objectively at the relationship and what went wrong. This will also help you know what to communicate with your ex when you do bring them back into your life and keep you from making the same mistakes.

This is a period you take care of yourself and get back to what attracted your ex to you. This means taking care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally.

The next steps to get your ex back is to know when and how to bring your ex back into your life. Moreover, you need to know how to fix the problem that caused the break-up.

All of this is laid out step-by-step and in detail in by TW Jackson in The Magic Of Making Up.
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