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Seeking Relationship Help: Advice For Couples in Conflict
Seeking Relationship Help: Advice For Couples in Conflict


If a couple is in conflict and want to solve it, you need to find relationship help. Advice for your conflict can help you work together to resolve the issues you are facing. Many relationship issues can cause you to look for help.

Work on Your Communication Skills

My advice to you is to begin working on your communication with each other to get started.  Miscommunication is the cause of most relationship problems. Remember a relationship takes two people to work. If those two people cannot talk to each other without misunderstandings, then the relationship will not work.

Listening

Good communication begins with listening to your partner.  As you let them talk, ask questions to clarify what they are saying. Do not make assumptions. You do not want to understand them just from your point of view; you need to understand them from their own point of view.
 
Focus on Giving


Another point to healing your relationship is to focus more on giving to your partner than what you get. Many relationships begin this way and somewhere along the way it changes. Then people spend more time focused on what they get than on what they give.
When you focus on what you give to the relationship, you will find that your partner is much more receptive.

Take Responsibility for Your Actions


Every relationship has problems from time to time. One of the differences of relationships that survive these problems is accepting responsiblity for their part in the problem.

Every relationship has two people involved. Both parties are in some way responsible for the problems, which they face. When you accept responsibility for your actions in the relationship, you will be more willing and able to give your partner what they need.

Understand, there is a difference between acceptance and blame. Do not be hard on yourself for the problems you have contributed to. Accept yours mistakes with love and work to not repeat those mistakes again.

Find Common Goals


Find common goals you have with your partner. Working together to plan and achieve those goals will strengthen your bond and bring you closer together. You will have to work together and work on achieving those goals. Take time at least once a week to go over your goals, and what you have each done to bring them closer to happening.

For now, your goal can be to end the conflict. By talking and working together to find a resolution, you will find that you each have different views on how to reach that goal. Working together with each other's strengths and weaknesses can help you to reach those goals easier and faster.

There are many problems, which will cause conflict within your relationship. By identifying those problems early, you can find a way to work them out. Listen to your partner. Learn what they see the problem to be.

It will be difficult to break old habits, and start communicating effectively. However once you do, your relationship will grow quickly. Take responsibility for your part in the problems you face. There are things beyond your control, but you can choose how you respond to those events.

Find common goals and work together to find a plan of action to reach them. By working together, and giving to each other, and reaching your goals, you will find yourselves growing closer together, and building a strong relationship that will last.
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