Many guys think it is hard to attract great women into their lives. They often settle for someone they can live with rather than finding one that they really want. You need to consider making some changes in how you approach women in order to attract the right one.
Social confidence is one of the keys to getting a great woman in your life. If you are socially inadequate, most of the great women will not even give you the time of day. This does not mean being cocky or self centered. Confidence is more about not appearing to be desperate. Act in a way that shows you would like to get to know them, but you don't have to. Women enjoy competition for a guy. If you appear to have many options, they will be more interested in getting to know you.
Be yourself, and you will go far. Do not try to impress her with one liners, or pickup lines. These rarely work with the really great women, because once the line is done, you do not know where to go. Just be yourself. Relax and have a good time.
Making a woman laugh will put her at ease. She will be more relaxed. You can even use your own social mistakes as path to humor. People who are confident enough in themselves to be able to joke about their own mistakes will impress someone much more than someone who is nervous and jittery.
Let go of your desperation
If you are desperate to hook up with a woman they will sense it. You have to let go of your desperation. This can be hard to do since you want to be honest but not appear as if you have no other prospects.
When you let go of your desperation, more women will be attracted to you. One way to do this, is to just relax. Do not focus on trying to meet someone. Jus go out and have a good time. Most of the people I know who have met their partner, were not looking to hook up when they met. They just became friends and went from there.
Having confidence in yourself will help you attract better women into your life. Do you wonder why the best women are always with men that are jerks? These men have confidence. They do not second guess themselves in everything they do. They just do whatever they think is right. Women can sense if you are trying to put on show. By finding confidence within yourself, you will find more options of who to date open to you
Be a Man
Many guys will try to get with women by trying to be less manly. This will not work. Doing this you will probably have a lot of women for friends, but they will want to be just friends.
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